If you wake up and the snow is knee-deep outside, you are not filled with rage. It’s just something that you’ve got to cope with. … If you’re living in a situation … it’s the only situation that you know, and you’ve got to deal with it.”

In this simple yet profound metaphor, Freeman encourages a mindset of acceptance rather than frustration. The “snow” represents the challenging or seemingly unfair circumstances we face — things we often cannot immediately change. Instead of responding with anger, he suggests we channel our energy into adapting and dealing with the situation.

This approach isn’t about resignation or giving up, but about grounded realism: recognizing your reality, accepting where you are, and moving forward. By doing so, Freeman says, you free yourself from wasted rage and make space for resilience.

It’s a reminder that true strength doesn’t always come from fighting the storm — but from facing it with clear eyes, calm resolve, and the willingness to cope.